How To Get Back Your Ex Who is With Someone Else

A common situation that happens when two people break up is that the person that did the dumping often realizes they made a mistake, but unfortunately that diamond in the rough you had and didn’t realize it until it was too late, has already been scooped up by someone else. One of the toughest battles you will have is in trying to figure out how to get back your ex that is with someone else.

The toughest thing to ever see when you want to be with someone is the first time that you see them with something else. Before you jump the gun, make sure that those feelings you are having are genuine and not just a little bit of jealousy. Second thing is that you don’t really need to sweat it too bad, it very well may be a rebound and they are just putting their time in and trying to get you out of their head. Don’t panic and you still have a shot of getting them back.

Have you ever heard the phrase, ‘two can play that game’? You don’t need to rub it in their face put you do want to see how they react to you being somewhere with someone else too. They are perfectly cool when they have the upper hand, but when the playing field gets leveled, it is a whole different story. Let them see you with someone else and at some point, make yourself available. Maybe you walk to the restroom when they are looking or you go over to the jukebox or bar by yourself. If they are still interested, they will more than likely wander over and at least say hi. If they make a comment that they can’t believe you are with so and so, the door is open, maybe only a little bit, but it is definitely open.

You are going to have to move really slowly and allow the other relationship to fall apart. That is going to be the most difficult because you want to be with them and you know they are going home with someone else. It’s not the easiest thing to do, but patience is going to be your best friend when you are trying to get your ex back.

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