Does my Ex Still Have Feelings For Me?

“Does my ex still have feelings for me?” You often hear this from a friend or from someone who has broken up with their boyfriend/girlfriend. Although it’s quite a common question for anyone who has been dumped, finding an answer can prove to be difficult.

If you find yourself in this situation, one of the first things you must do is accept the fact that your ex’s feelings for you will remain hidden – that’s provided they still have any. You’re going to have to do a lot of reading between the lines in order to find your answer. Having the ability to interpret what your ex is really saying is paramount. After all, if they broke it off, it would be hypocritical to start chasing you – think about it.

So what you need to do is look for the subtle hints that your ex might want to see you again. Here are a few:

You hear through your network of friends that your ex is asking questions about you. This is extremely positive because if they really didn’t care, they wouldn’t bother asking about you.

Your ex makes excuses to see you. Some examples might be meeting you to return some items or otherwise taking care of some loose ends. You’ve really got to read the signals right because they may just be trying to finalize the separation.

They turn up at social functions knowing full well that you’ll also be there. Secretly, they might be hoping to run into you – accidentally of course.

The bottom line is that if someone wants to avoid a particular person, it’s extremely easy. Your ex can easily get on with their life without seeing you. The fact that they keep showing up may be a sign that they still have feelings for you.